You should have let us have our vigil.This is every woman.Sarah Everard was every woman. A vigil would have been dignified, there might've been protests, but not this. She was one of us, Wayne Couzens was a cop.You can see how it looks.Your heavy-handed actions were both shocking and sickening.
Women know that not all men are like that (we have fathers, brothers, sons, friends), but if you are a woman being followed down a quiet road late at night, you are not going to turn and ask them if they are the scary, violent rapey kind or just out for a stroll.
You should have let us grieve.